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In search of fleeting visions...

My son is currently reading Susan Wise Bauer’s Story of the World series for his homeschool studies. Intrigued to learn more about Wise Bauer, I found her website and subsequently her blog, where I read a post that made me want to go “fishing” again...for my imagination! Says Wise Bauer In search of great golden phrases,

"[Dorothy Sayers] writes of a passage from the mystery novel Gaudy Night in which she says,"

in the silence, something comes “back to her that had lain dumb and dead ever since the old, innocent undergraduate days. The singing voice, stifled long ago by the presence of the struggle for existence…began to stammer a few uncertain notes. Great golden phrases, like the great carp from the depths of the pool, swam up out of her dreaming mind.”

Says Bauer,

The singing voice, like a great golden fish: it darts away if you try to grasp it. You have to lure it in, waiting for it to flick into view and hover there.

...My daily routine has made it increasingly difficult to lure the singing voice; so much of what I do–not necessarily the writing itself, but all of the work that surrounds it–seems to act like a little boy’s boots [referring to her sons’ actions when she took them fishing], driving the barely-seen imagination back into hiding.

I almost cried, to see someone else articulate this same thing I’ve experienced, this thing that comes to me now and then in a great searching wistfulness (sehnsucht)...

For me, it’s not just daily routine but also straightening out my life that has sent the fish away. The past several years have witnessed eradication of those awful internal wrenchings that would propel me recklessly toward destructive thought and behavior, mostly self-destructive. But in some ways, they and other “wrenchings” drove some of the best creativity I’ve ever produced. I knew that, were I to become more “normal,” more “ordinary” – the way I thought I wanted and needed to be – a part of me might die forever.

Well, that dying process has been going on gradually for the past fifteen years or so. Compounded by the fact that, nearly twelve years ago, I gave birth to my first child. Since then, the daily tasks of motherhood and wifehood and other duties have been so consuming that whatever creativity I have left comes in glimpses, mostly spontaneous and unthinking. Rarely have I opportunity to get into that zone where “great golden phrases” or their equivalent visions might float to the surface, releasing my mind to dream....

Not that I don’t dream, or play music professionally on occasion, and practice my instrument, and dabble in photography, and attend various artistic events. I just don’t seem to “have it” anymore. Or rarely. And when the glimpses do come, I know they will be short-lived; they will disappear like the macaroni and cheese on my kids’ plates. The clock will pull right up to the next item in my life’s schedule and burst my reverie like a soap bubble. Solitude, real solitude – that land where soap bubbles proliferate – is just not to be found or visited in this life I live, save for that which I must reserve physically to keep my sanity.

But honestly, I’m not sure if I really want to find that land, or dwell there, or make those “glimpses” last, because, frankly, they’re rather frightening. They’re not “safe”...I don’t trust myself when I’m too creative. I fear my head will go floating off with the bubbles.

(You may be thinking, but, Bonnie, you blog. Well, yes, and it certainly is a creative outlet. I won’t deny that. But it, like the rest of my life, is so practially-oriented – a craft more than an art, really.)

The following are "imagination lures" Wise Bauer lists:

Reading (almost anything)
Music (particularly classical, folk, sometimes soundtracks)
Drinking tea (I adore coffee, but it oils the gears of the money-making machine; it doesn’t do much for my imagination)
Complete quiet and solitude
Coffeeshops where I don’t know anyone
A restaurant meal alone
Walking or running by myself

These things do it for me too, although not to the depth that they used to. (Though they provide food for blog-thought!) What really seems to work is having a long period of solitude, or being transported to a different experience -- taken out of myself, if you will, with a camera in front of my eye, or a great book, or a great movie, or travel, or a great conversation with someone.

Tell me...how do you find your golden phrases? Your visions?

Comments

I felt as if I was having a midlife crisis while reading your post. I'm not sure when the last time was that I had my vision....or at least got to do something with it. As I drift off to sleep is often when I have my most profound moments.....and then morning arrives and all is gone. For me, I believe the constant activity of learning is where I found inspiration towards creativity, and I feel like I'm dying inside being separated from that environment.

Posted by: Sarah Flashing at October 1, 2007 6:42 PM

I don't think our creative longings, when told to wait because more urgent matters have to be attended to, will die away. The golden fish goes deep and quiet - and grows. It's frustrating to catch glimpses of it, especially when you don't have time to break out the fishing gear. But carp live a very long time.

I think of that creative spark as a wine that matures as it waits in the bottle. Once the bottle is finally opened, there's a richness to an old wine that doesn't compare to when it was younger.

As my children grew older, I found more and more moments of solitude for fishing. I need solitude to write, and music to keep away the distractions. But the ideas and realizations that make their way into what I write come from what I read, and they've been taking shape over a lifetime. Don't despair, Bonnie.

Posted by: Charlie at October 1, 2007 7:19 PM

Charlie, that was beautiful. Thank you. It gives me hope!

Sarah -- hugs! You know, I used to keep a journal by my bed for those nighttime inspirations...but now I'm too in love with my sleep to use it!

Are you able to carve out some regular time for yourself to just read & study, to feed that part of you enough to keep it alive, til you can find more time?

Posted by: Bonnie at October 1, 2007 10:51 PM

"I don’t trust myself when I’m too creative. I fear my head will go floating off with the bubbles."

That was an interesting statement.

Do you feel you would drop the ball on the activities and duties if you let the creative part have too much rein? I kinda would like to hear more of what you mean :) I am finding this topic unusually engaging for me. Maybe because I don't have alot of opinion formed yet and want to see around the bend.

Posted by: ilona at October 2, 2007 7:38 PM

Thanks for your question, Ilona. I'll try to answer. Yes, what you said about dropping the ball is part of it. I guess the the main thing is that I don't really know what healthy creativity looks like.

In the past and even the present for me, creativity is kind of a boundary-less thing. But a great deal of my personal healing has involved learning about proper boundaries in inter-personal relationships and in my thought life.

Before I grew in the faith, my head was a jumbled mess; I couldn't separate the fact from the fake, about all kinds of things. I had, and still do, I think, an uncanny ability to "see" things. But at lot of what I used to "see" was not-so-good. Mental illness runs in my family and I'm certain that it's tied to creative ability too. I've been determined that I wasn't going to go the bad way of others in my family.

Many of these boundaries I've learned to create and honor still seem rather tenuous, and it's only with great care and deliberate concentration that I can maintain them sometimes.

They're probably stronger than I think, though...and so a lot of this is about confidence too -- confidence in what I've learned and in God, but I still fear undoing some of the good work I've done. I fear "forgetting" what I've learned and getting myself in bad places mentally or even emotionally, both for myself and others...I need to "keep myself together" for the sake of those I serve.

(Don't know if that makes sense to anyone but me...!)

Posted by: Bonnie at October 3, 2007 8:57 AM

Years ago I attended a Phil Keaggy concert and, after the applause for one particular guitar solo, he thanked the audience and remarked that his creativity had been better about 10 years previous - when he was still single. It didn't really appear to bother him that he had had to temporarily sacrifice his creativity, because it was done for noble reasons. You could argue that, despite his situation at the time I saw him, he was pretty much expressing his creativity full time. But it was definitely apparent to him that his creative outlet had been diminished.

Posted by: Rusty at October 8, 2007 3:26 PM
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