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Real Happiness

Modern man, and probably mostly Americans, place happiness at the top of their goals in life, for themselves and their children. But happiness is almost always taken for granted to be an emotion. But that kind of happiness is very elusive and transitory. And it's a very modern understanding of happiness.

From our Founding Fathers to Aristotle, happiness was a virtue that was much more deep-seated in our soul and therefore much more attainable. New research is showing that this older definition is much more atuned to our natures and attained by being more other-oriented, engaged in meaningful activities rather than being focused on our own gratification.

A piece by Betsy Hart sums this up:
"[T]he growing study of human happiness suggests it is appropriate for us to deliberately focus our thoughts on what broadens us, elevates us and connects us to others. And the result may be that focus helps bring us the greatest satisfaction and happiness.
"But, is this really news? Almost 2000 years ago the Apostle Paul wrote, as he instructed Christians to be joyful in all things, "Whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy -- meditate on these things." (Philippians 4:8.)
"No wonder. Scripture also tells us there is nothing new under the sun."

Comments

I read an interesting book on this topic a few years ago ( I have to find the title and post it later). Anyway, the author in his research came across a pattern that worked across the board in cultures... and that was that happiness tends to be a comparison value we make. We are happy if we feel we have prestige ( or accomplishments or whatever our measure) in relative amounts of equal or more than those around us. We decline in feelings of happiness when we deem ourselves as having less than those around us.

This can explain how some who are very wealthy by global standards can feel deprived... and how some people in lower economic standards can feel relatively happy with their lives.

I think I had a post on it...will try to find that to continue the discussion. But it brings up another verse of scripture that warns us not to compare ourselves with each other. (2 Corinthians 10:12)

...contentment with godliness starts to look like a good goal when considering how our feelings of happiness work.

Posted by: ilona at January 25, 2007 11:13 AM

I think happiness used to be associated much more with virtue than with hedonistic pleasure. There was an honor and dignity associated with this sort of virtue. Today, though, the very definition of virtue has changed.

Posted by: Bonnie at January 27, 2007 10:56 AM
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