« The Scales of Sin | Main | Search results »

Adversity and Civility, part I: philophronos

(Series subtitle: Attitudes of the Heart and the Actions That Proceed Therefrom)

JCHFleetGuy at Brain Cramps for God commends philophronos blogging, a promising new venture by Laura of Pursuing Holiness and Henry Neufeld of Threads from Henry’s Web.

philóphron: to think, have a mindset. Friendly, courteous, benign (1Peter 3:8). Deriv.: philophrónos (G5390), in a friendly or kind manner.

Laura points to 1 Peter 3:15-16 as the model for all discourse:

If we are called to make our defense of our faith with gentleness and respect, how much more should we do so with respect to minor issues like the politics of our nation or any of the temporary governments of this world?
and makes a call for Philanthropos Bloggers:
Christian bloggers should purposefully express our political beliefs with gentleness and respect, with the intention of setting the example for non-Christians. We’re not all going to agree. We don’t need to agree. But we can debate the issues in such a way that the debate glorifies God and points people to Christ. We’re challenging Christian bloggers who write about politics to write at least one post a week until the election - and hopefully after it
If you are interested in joining this effort, see Laura’s post for information.

In the comments to Laura’s post is a link to another of her posts illustrating the “pay it forward” concept behind philanthropos blogging. The idea: one act of kindness will beget another (not necessarily in return, but passed on to others). She calls it a “dangerous naivete.” Indeed, "paying it forward" is the hope in the Christian’s “shining the light” for others to see. The reality is, of course, that many are not the least bit interested in the light. That includes Christians at times, including me. (I’m not referring to turning away from general assent to the gospel, but from assent to its implications for every situation encountered every day). But the “dangerous naivete” is the belief that at least some will “pick up the ball and run with it.” Says Laura, “I’d rather be dangerously naive than cynical.”

Me too. But most of all I’d rather be dangerously not naive, which is to say, completely trusting in God. Knowing that I may be paid back a completely different account than I was paying forward (or not at all, in this life anyway). I must do it anyway. We must speak and act, always, in the Light so that the Light will shine forth. But not self-consciously, with our every word and action a self-consciously calculated action aimed to influence. We do the right thing because it’s the right thing to do, period. I know that, myself, as soon as I start trying to determine or second-guess the results of any action I take, my focus is turned right on you-know-who and not straight ahead. As soon as I try to get this kind of handle on something, all sorts of fears, worries, and false hopes take over. It’s the death of me! (As someone once wrote), in seeking to save my life, I lose it.

Do I hope for positive influence from the things I do? Of course. But it’s not me. Any positive influence that may come through me is from God. And most of the things He does through me I have little awareness of anyway.

Coming next: comments on civility

Comments

Philophronos. I like it! It doesn't exactly roll off the tongue, but it's a word and idea that has its roots in love, and I think that debate and dialogue rooted in kindness and love may be the only way that we Christian bloggers can distinguish ourselves from the masses.

I was intrigued by a comment that Hugh Hewitt made at the GodBlog Conference -- I read about it -- when he urged Christian bloggers to "praise the good" as a way of distinguishing themselves and honoring Christ. I think that fits well with the idea of philophronos. Not only in our attitudes and demeanor, but in the way we speak about difficult issues, we each need to do more to recognize good and not spend all of our time b-tching. I'm not speaking about being Pollyannas, but recognizing the truth that God is at work in the world all around us, and through us.

Looking forward to your next installment, Bonnie.

Posted by: Charlie at November 4, 2006 12:36 PM

Philopronos? Sounds good.

As I think you know, I don't usually dwell on political subjects, although my next-to-last was entitled "Why I plan to vote." It dealt with the Bible and voting, not with any particular issues or candidates. I might even join this effort, but it sounds like it's more for blogs who are mostly political in nature.

Thanks for the heads up on this.

Posted by: Martin LaBar at November 4, 2006 6:31 PM

Philopronos? Sounds good -- politics without screaming. As I think you know, I don't post about politics much, although my next-to-last effort was entitled "Why I plan to vote." It dealt with the Bible and voting, not with any particular issues or candidates. I might even join this effort, but it sounds like it's more for blogs who are mostly political in nature.

Posted by: Martin LaBar at November 4, 2006 6:32 PM

Sorry. I wasn't trying to scream, just to comment, and did it twice. (make that thrice). Please feel free to delete one or more (even all three) of these.

Thanks again for the mention of this material.

Posted by: Martin LaBar at November 5, 2006 9:01 AM

If you haven't left a comment here before, you may need to be approved before your comment will appear. Until then, it won't appear on the entry. Thanks for waiting.

About

Creative Commons License
This weblog is licensed under a Creative Commons License.