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Contemporary Christian Women's Ministry

I just don't fit in the box...and I never really have. I've always cringed at the activities of the typical church women's ministry because what I saw seemed either to focus on a single group of women or lacked the quality and depth of books and studies not intended specifically for women. If you say I'm making broad sweeping comments about women's ministry, you might be right. But the fact is, in many churches, women with more intellectual tendencies are looked upon to nurture others - as they should - but usually are expected to keep their intellectualism to themselves. Women's bible studies are often very poorly written...with the exception of some great materials by Elizabeth George, Elyse Fitzpatrick, Kay Arthur, and a few others.

When I entered into seminary studies in 2002, I promised myself that women's ministry was the LAST thing I would ever participate in. That promise was reminiscent of the one I made when I was 18 - that I would never work in the fast food industry. So far, I haven't flipped a burger, but God seemed to have other plans for me with regards to women's ministry.

I came to the conclusion during one of my graduate courses in bioethics that women's ministry is, indeed, in need of a face lift (but please do not confuse that for some unnecessary nontherapeutic physical enhancement) and that I am called to this work. Born from this was The Foundation for Women of Faith in Culture, its primary mission being to support the spiritual maturation of women through biblical, theological, and worldview education. I'm excited to say that people are finding this ministry on the internet and are responding.

My hope for Intellectuelle is that it is a place for men and women to reflect on faith and living, but I hope especially that it brings together a community of women who will continue the discussion of what it means to be a thinking Christian woman - and that the Church will take notice of our discussion and our existence.

Comments

great post, Sarah! I could totally relate. I've been curious about Elizabeth George--now I'll have to check her out...

Posted by: Marla at August 26, 2005 6:13 PM

I believe I will be hitting some of the very same obstacles in the near future - well, already have, but probably not to the extent you've experienced. Your words are encouraging, thanks for sharing.

Posted by: Laura at August 26, 2005 7:33 PM

I would be so excited for more stimulating women's ministry. Please stop the "How to be beautiful for God" (aka - current trends in make-up and fashion with a 'what's on the inside matters most' tacked on the end) or "The Virtue of Hospitality" (aka Home decorating ideas). I know that the churches I have attended mean well and that they are trying to draw in women who may not be regular church attenders, but how about some meat and potatoes for the rest of us?! I'm so glad to hear that I'm not alone. That's why I like this site. Kindred spirits are gathering here desiring depth in our faith and thought life.

Posted by: Cindy at August 26, 2005 8:22 PM

Yeah! I've so often had thoughts like these myself when I've attended women's retreats or women's Bible studies

Posted by: Hannah at August 27, 2005 5:52 AM

Me, too. Looking for the combination of style and substance.

Posted by: Lexie at August 27, 2005 6:17 AM

Clarification: Don't want to throw out any vestiage of style, but that's icing on the meat. (Bad mixed metaphor....yuck! Is there something to that?)

Posted by: Lexie at August 27, 2005 6:24 AM

Some of the most recent requests to speak have been on the topic of makeover, but the plan is not to focus soley on the spiritual/redemptive aspect (the feel good part), but on the theological aspect of the fall and our need for an extreme makeover. The redemptive will also accompany the discussion, of course.

Posted by: Sarah at August 27, 2005 7:38 AM

Sarah, I'll be praying for you as you are in a position in impact what's going on.

Posted by: Lexie at August 27, 2005 8:06 PM

Sarah, I am also sick of so called "Contemporary Christian Women's Ministry"! Since when does any woman have the authority to teach scripture? Paul clearly tells us that we ought to remain silent in church and that we also must submit to the authority of our husbands. I wear a hat to church every Sunday and I've never applied one ounce of make-up to my face. In spite of my refusal to follow the cultural norm that society would have us follow, I managed to marry a succesful business man who looks like Brad Pitt. Not only is my husband devastatingly handsome and rich, he also has a Doctorate of Divinity! Why would I even want to associate with other women who proclaim themselves authorized to exegete Holy Scripture?

I think it high time that we do away with Women's Ministry all together and get back to what God intended: we remain silent in church and listen to God's appointed man.

Posted by: Desiree at August 29, 2005 2:49 AM

FWIW I personally find that the church community mimics the world's in that women do not much accept one another. There is the narrowist base of like interests and approach that rules womens interactions and ministries, oftentimes.

I think that is a great pity.

As for this idea:
"get back to what God intended: we remain silent in church and listen to God's appointed man"
That has to be a joke.
A very bad joke.

And yes, I'd be willing to get contentious on this.

how about the humble aptness to teach and other such matters? I find it utmost arrogance to tell women to just shut up.

Posted by: ilona at August 29, 2005 10:18 AM

Hang in there, there are many women that want to learn about God more than is taught Sunday morning. Most of what passes for womens' ministry is schlock....and we accept it because that is all that is offered. Please be aware that many women are content with fluff...(sanctified blondeness???). As for being silent in church...what about older women teaching the younger women??? Certainly all of life involves theology. BTW, I am older....but not ancient

Posted by: Barbara at August 29, 2005 2:14 PM

Love reading stuff by women that are interested in theology. Keep up the great work. I'll be back.

Ellen

Posted by: Ellen Hallin at September 20, 2005 8:26 AM

Good post. Trying to talk apologetics with most Christian women I know is next to impossible. While most of my thoughts are consummed with my daughter, husband, and job, it is always refreshing to think of other things! As for makeup...I never wear it, why start now?

Posted by: Thia at September 25, 2005 10:02 AM

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