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Memento Mori

There once was a gal quite alive
Who could think of no way to deprive
The spectre of death from from a-stealin' her breath...
But she knows in the Lord she'll survive

Every year or so I like to take a vacation, and I go spend a few weeks in the morgue. A fictional morgue, but a morgue nevertheless. In a novelistic fashion, I have been present at autopsies (virtual autopsy link, not for the squeamish), seen the sharp surgical scalpel slice into dead flesh, heard the power saw cut through skulls, and spent time with medical examiners, profilers and police officers; I have seen the effect that brutality has on those who immerse themselves in it. Normally my mystery reading does not fall into the gruesome or graphic category, but every so often I pick up novels that have some of these qualities and I am reminded of the depths of human depravity and the brevity of human life, including my own.

Memento Mori. Remember, you must die.

During the middle ages, when real death was more visible than it is today, Hans Holbein, Albrecht Durer and others designed woodcuts that are known as The Dance of Death. These works show people of every rank, age and trade, well, Dancing With Death. The purpose of these works was to portray death as the great equalizer, and to remind the living that their day would come. One of the reasons to hold this thought was because of the certainty of judgment by God after death, and one could never be sure when that would occur. Although these images are not frightening or grisly by our modern standards, they are a sobering reminder of that most dreaded of human experiences. More modern artists as well, especially Kathe Kollwitz, have created works that being forth in stark reality of the horror of death and also the grief of those left among the living

Memento Mori in some form, it seems, will always be with us. The theatres and bookstores today are full of graphic murder depictions and cold blooded cruelty. We are faced on every side with manufactured death, while actual death is hidden in hospitals, nursing homes and the like. We feed ourselves on the kind violent death that breeds desensitization and avoid the kind of death or suffering which breeds compassion. We see this stuff so much that we can sometimes no longer tell the difference between fiction and reality. I watch virtually ZERO violent films, and yet when I saw the footage of people jumping out of the World Trade Center, I could not believe that what I was watching was real.

The Memento Mori of the past was not sensational, electric with the excitement of the chase. It never portayed death as something to laugh about, but as a serious reminder of the human condition and the consequences of human action. It brought out the reality of pain and grief, and the necessity of being reconciled to God. Today's Memento Mori too often sees violence as a joke and people as utterly disposable...instead of creating a sober respect for death, it glorifies it.

I have struggled with whether I, as a Christian, should sometimes read these novels depicting ugly violence. I know that I am called to focus on those things that are true, beautiful, of good report, etc. However, occasionally looking these things in the face helps me to remember what is in the human heart, and not to fall prey to the common modern platitude that people are basically good. In other words, I am reminded of the need for salvation, and the truth of the old saying "There but for the grace of God go I". For all the hatreds within the breasts of "pretty good people" are murders in miniature, different only in degree, not in kind.

I have also noticed how fittingly the Scripture speaks of today's obsession with death, and not only that which is fictional; the rise in murder, rape, suicide, abortion and euthanasia fills the news. The first three are rightly called tragedies, the second two are more and more often encouraged. Looking at our our current landscape, God's Word that "...he who sins against Me wrongs his own soul; All those who hate Me love death" (Proverbs 8:36), is made manifest.

Comments

I am not all that surprised anymore with what I read about going on in the world and the Culture of Death. What does continue to astound, dismay and concern me is the silence and paralysis of the Church and the moral apathy and confusion of Believers. Eventually I guess I'll cease to be surprised by even this. We just seem to keep following along, a few paces behind the world, in our thinking (or lack thereof).

Posted by: Debra at July 15, 2005 9:10 AM

Excellent post--your insight about people being willing to watch fictional deaths by violence but not being shown real, natural deaths really resonated with me, having watched my own stepfather take his final breath. I haven't been the same since. Nearly every morning, I wake up grateful to be alive and I try to always thank God for giving me (and my loved ones another day) together, though I know that if we had any inkling of what it was like on the other side, none of us would have any reservations about going...except maybe the thought of our loved ones having to stay behind.

As Christians, it seems like we should be the most able to accept "natural death", but technology--for better and for worse--has complicated the meaning of that term. Thanks for giving me the added impetus to post on that subject (and the larger sanctity of life topic) sooner than later...

Posted by: Marla at July 15, 2005 9:45 AM

It would be nice to hear more preaching and teaching on death, from a Christian perspective. Not in a fakey- positive I-don't-really-care-but-I-know-a -lot-of-Scripture way, but with a great deal of compassion and hope. I know it can be done, and I think people would genuinely appreciate this equipping.

Maybe bloggers can fill this gap, too?

Posted by: Gray at July 15, 2005 7:19 PM

Samantha, We seem to be on the same wavelength. I worked in a funeral home for almost one year when I was in college. Although I was only a receptionist, I was able to observe a lot about death. My shift usually had me working alone in the evenings after all the living people had left.

Since death can come at any time, people would call at night to tell me that a person had died. I would then call "the body removers" to go and pick up the corpse. Since I was responsible to turn off the lights inside the viewing rooms before I left, I came face to face with dead bodies, albeit very highly made-up ones, frequently. Usually, we had elderly people, but I also saw a young teenage girl.

I often remembered the words in Ecclesiastes 6:2, "It is better to go to a house of mourning than to a go to a house of feasting, for death is the destiny of every man; the living should take this to heard."

As Christians, we should be distressed by voyeuristic depictions of death. We don't want to glorify violence. But I don't think we should protect ourselves (or our children) from seeing real death. I was present when my mother died. Like Marla, the experience of seeing a person die changed me for the good.

I have met people, even Christians, who refused to let their children attend a funeral because they feared that it would tramatize them. As a pastor's daughter, I attended many funerals as a young child and I viewed the person in the casket. I think those experiences helped me understand that death is real.

Posted by: Hannah Im at July 15, 2005 7:41 PM

Life is a perpetual dance macabre, I guess. Death is a very present reality for us humans, and if anything the church ought to speak to that.

I love John Donne's sonnet on this, though: "Death, be not proud, though some have called thee/Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so."

Posted by: Manders at July 17, 2005 9:09 PM

I love that Donne sonnet too.

I've never seen a dead body, although I've been to a few funerals (we don't do open caskets in the UK, mostly). Yet I must have seen hundreds and thousands of fictional deaths and deaths on news reports, mostly violent and bloody. Death is familiar as destruction, something to be feared, or glorified in those strange sections of counter-culture that revel in darkness and misery.

I think your point, Samantha, about feeding ourselves on violent death and avoiding compassion is a pertinent one. I'm wondering about what my response ought to be. To avoid watching violence? To pray over every news report? I don't know. There probably isn't only one right response, but plenty of wrong ones.

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